Sacred Sex-Ed: What they DIDN'T teach you

About Female Bodies (or Sexuality)

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Who here was told "If you have unprotected sex, you will die"

or "The female orgasm is useless"

or "Men get the most pleasure"

or "Females don't ejaculate"

They taught us how to put a condom on a banana.

They taught us how to bleed discreetly, how to fear pregnancy, how to say no, how to stay safe.

They taught us how to cross our legs, cover our chests, and keep our voices down.

But they didn’t teach us that we were made for pleasure. That our bodies are temples of erotic intelligence. That our desire is a spiritual GPS. That our turn-on is a biochemical superpower. That the clitoris has zero reproductive function and 8,000+ nerve endings and exists purely for our ecstasy.

They didn’t teach us that our cervix connects directly to the vagus nerve—the one that calms our anxiety, deepens our breath, restores our nervous system, and opens us to divine downloads.

They didn’t teach us that our womb is not just a baby-maker—it’s an energetic cauldron of creativity, prophecy, pleasure, and power.

No one taught us that a turned-on woman is a dangerous woman.

So we’ve been trying to succeed in a world that only taught us how to survive.

Let’s Be Clear:

You were never given a full education.What you got was a sterilized slideshow of fear tactics and tampon demos.And what you deserved was the holy gospel of your own body.

So let me offer you a different kind of curriculum.

🔥 Lesson One: The Clitoris Is a Portal

Let’s start with the clitoris—not just because she’s misunderstood, but because she’s the most sacred, most ignored piece of the female anatomy.

She’s not a dot. She’s a network.

The visible tip is just the beginning—beneath the surface she extends into legs, bulbs, and crura that wrap around the vaginal canal like a secret spell. The whole structure is about four inches deep and shaped like a wishbone.

In other words: if you’ve ever felt like “penetration isn’t enough,” you’re right. Most of your pleasure is being skipped.

This isn’t just anatomy—it’s design.The clitoris exists for no reason except pleasure.Let that sink in.

Spirit didn’t make a mistake. Your pleasure is not an accident. It’s not optional. It’s intelligent. It’s how your body speaks to you.

🔥 Lesson Two: Your Orgasm Is a Healing Technology

Did you know that during orgasm, the body floods with nitric oxide, oxytocin, dopamine, and endorphins?

Translation:

• Blood vessels open

• Inflammation lowers

• Stress hormones drop

• Immune function boosts

• And your brain enters a gamma-wave state—aka the same frequency achieved during advanced meditation or mystical experiences.

Simply, Your orgasm is a nervous system reset. It’s how the body repairs, restores, and remembers.

But no one told you that. Or maybe you're just on the path to remember this.

THIS is the medicine. Yeah, your sex, is healing.

But It's not just the orgasm. It's learning how to live ORGASMICALLY.

Don't fight me, but truly your orgasmic energy was not meant to stay in the bedroom, or private time. Through practice and radical self-discovery you can learn how to harness this energy in daily life, blessing yourself, circumstances, the Earth, and others, simply by the way you move.

🔥 Lesson Three: The Womb Remembers

You weren’t just born with your body—you were born carrying memories.

Here’s the science: When your grandmother was pregnant with your mother, the eggs inside your mother were already forming—including the egg that became you.

Which means:You were in your grandmother’s womb.

You carry the cellular memory of her emotions, her trauma, her desire, her silence.

You carry generations of contraction around female power, sexuality, worth, and expression.

And the womb is not forgetful. She stores. Every time you numb out during sex…Every time you say yes when it’s a no…Every time you silence your moan, your rage, your wildness…

Your body remembers.

That’s why the healing we do in Holy Harlot isn’t just intellectual—it’s somatic, emotional, and ancestral. We don’t just talk about worth—we rewire it, deep in the fascia and the feminine psyche.

Beginning the process of reigniting trust with your Womb is Holy.

Your Yoni too for that matter. When you begin sending awareness there, or breath, you are saying "Hey love! I Cherish you, I'm ready to begin working with your magic again". The magic of quick manifestation, or clear intution, or radical happiness. These are just some of the blessings that wait inside your Feminine Hardware.

When I first started tuning into my womb space, I wasn't sure if I was doing it right, but I just kept bringing my awareness there, trying to add sensation. After a few times, i began to feel her turn back on. And then... She released large amounts of anger and rage. I was like woah. But I knew this was my womb, that she had a lot to say, and I was ready to process with her.

After that, I began manifesting much more quickly, and still so.

🔥 Lesson Four: Erotic Energy = Creative Energy

Let me say something sacred: Your pussy is not a performance. She’s a power source.

Every idea you’ve ever had… every vision, every poem, every soul-led business… that spark of creation? It’s erotic energy.

It's your Higher Self trying to guide you to the most perfect people, places, and things. Its your desires that get you there. Like little bread crumbs (will you follow? Or say That's unrealistic, or I don't know how that would be possible!)

Your erotic energy isn’t just for sex. It’s for life force. It’s the same Shakti that births galaxies. And it lives in you.

When we repress our sexuality, we repress our creativity, our voice, our joy, and our intuition.

That’s why so many women feel stuck. Not because they’re broken. But because they are listening to limitations rather than the guidance of Higher Self: pleasure

🔥 Lesson Five: Pleasure Isn’t a Distraction—It’s a Compass

We’ve been trained to treat pleasure like dessert: nice if you can afford it, but not necessary.

But your body is not built like that. Your body is wired to follow what feels good—for a reason.

When you experience real pleasure, the nervous system shifts from survival (fight, flight, freeze) into safety (rest, receive, repair). This is where intuition gets louder. Where creativity downloads happen. Where magnetism is born.

This is not to say that pleasure doesn't sometimes feel scary; like other emotions, it exists on a scale.

Some people are pleasure "averse"; meaning they actively try to avoid pleasure becasue their nervous system is so bound up it screams "OMG this isn't familiar! Abort abort!", when in fact, pleasure is exactly what the nervous system needs to chill out.

And pleasures can be small emjoyments! Like good coffee, laughing with a friend, the smell of rain.

Or it can be erotic; like falling in love, getting vulnerable with people you care about, taking a financial risk for you dreams.

Pleasure teaches the body to shine.

The reason so many women feel burned out, disconnected, or anxious isn’t a mindset issue—it’s a body that hasn’t felt alive in decades.

🔥 Sacred Reminder: You Are Designed for Worship

You were never meant to shrink, contort, or apologize.

Your body is not wrong. It’s just been miseducated.

You were designed to be worshipped. Not by everyone—but by the right ones. And by yourself first.

I've heard women talk about how their partner isn't pleasing them, isn't helping them, and just disappoints them. and my annoying first question is always "Ok, are you pleasing yourself first?" Because an unpleased woman is a menace to herself and others. So turn back on your own light, and I SWEAR people, places, and things will fall in line, by magic.

You were meant to know how to wield your desire without shame. To trust your turn-on as truth. To use your erotic intelligence to build, birth, and become what the world never saw coming.

That’s the work of Holy Harlot.

💌 Ready to Reclaim What Was Forgotten?

This is not about adding more “self-love” rituals or buying another crystal dildo.

This is about full-body reclamation.

It’s about learning the language of your own pleasure…Understanding the quantum intelligence of your erotic energy…And remembering that your feminine power is not a liability. It’s your home frequency.

If this stirred something in your womb, your throat, or your chest—It’s time.

👉🏽 Click here to book your Discovery Call.

Let’s talk about your sacred return.

Because what they didn’t teach you…Is exactly what we’re here to remember together.