You don't need to heal more

I was writing my WHY this morning.

Why I started this business, why it matters.

I wanted to share it with you:

I have spent over a decade with clients; some were able to shift quickly, some very slowly.

The questioned that plagued my dreams was, how can I help people heal faster?

What I have found is that women are trying to heal in a format that does not relate to them. As a society we are coming off of many thousands of years where women were secondary, ignored or even abused and profited from. This is still evident today in the healing and spiritual communities.

There is a moral expectation to get better in a system that has not taken into consideration how different the female body, female energy is from the dominating male paradigm. We re told to meditate more and visualize harder, work more on ourselves. But that is not how a female energy system runs. We end up outpouring more than we receive, trying to run soley on our masculine energy of logic, outcome, and proof; until we run dry.

A woman cannot be well as a martyr, a woman cannot experience joy as a people pleaser, a woman cannot be powerful as an over-giver.

Women are perpetually tired and let down by the medical system that only included them in research studies 30 years ago. Women are frustrated, at themselves, their bodies, and society. We do not need another meditation protocol, another silent retreat, or hot yoga membership.

We need bliss.

Bliss is what heals the years of trauma, the ancestral lineages of lack and self-sacrifice.

The woman needs the feminine mysteries.

She needs to understand her yoni and her womb space not as embarrassing organs that the doctors want to poke and medicate and blame for every stressor.

She needs to uncover the woman beyond the wounds.

The wounds that have identified her for the past few decades.

She needs to awaken the deeper archetypes of priestess, lover, sage, warrior.

She needs to understand that her body is the blueprint of god, not in an ambiguous woo-woo way, in the way that confirms her womb can create something out of nothing: babies, relationships, book deals, art.

That her body has a miraculous organ that’s only function is to guide her to pleasure. Why? Because pleasure is what her body runs on.

And we are fucking starved out here, wondering why the supplements aren’t working like they promised.

Woman, you are starved for bliss, your body runs on it, in a biological way. But we have spent many years conditioning women to outsource their pleasure, when it's so much more magical and powerful than we were ever led to understand.

These are the feminine mysteries. Walk with me in June to fill you body with bliss, change your body chemistry, and become the magnetic intuitive woman you have been all along.

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Did you feel that? I'm so lit up by this work.

You probably felt it somewhere, a sensation, a calling.

That was my WHY, but I have more to explain below.

Your brain on autopilot

Your brain, is an amazing adaptive, and predictive tool. But so much of your decision making power and awareness happens below your awareness. Your brain has already sorted out and left behind 99.9999% of sensory data before a thought is had, or a feeling is felt.

This is your Reticular Activating System, RAS. A part of the brain that works tirelessly to prevent you from being overwhelmed.

How does it know which information to sort out before giving you the 0.00001%?

Its based on core beliefs and chemical priming.

A CEO may always see a new deal, but will miss the opportunity to take a relaxing vacation.

A father will always find something in your house to fix, but won't notice you've dyed your hair red.

A body builder will be tracking your macros at dinner, but miss the judgy look you give him.

(ok these are personal, but you get the picture)

More importantly: Someone who is on their healing journey will always find something wrong with themselves, and miss the wholeness that's always been on offer.

So how do we convince our RAS to filter in the rest of the information that we want?

We need to change the operating system.

If we wanted to buy a red car, our RAS would allow all the red cars, that have been wizzing past us for years, to start to enter our awareness.

If we wanted to find more joy in our life, our RAS would allow all the joy that has been surrounding us to start to enter our awareness.

Simple, but harder to carry out sometimes. Especially if we've had decades of practice with these operating systems:

• Money is hard to come by

• My body is failing me

• I am ugly

• I'm getting so old

• Life isn't fun anymore

• Nothing lucky ever happens to me

• Pleasure is a thing for young love

The case for Bliss

What I am trying to show you is yes, negativity is addictive at a neuroplastic level, and it's been showing up in your life like that for YEARS.

But we can shift the program. There is a life all around you that you're only 0.00001% aware of. So what's the likelihood that your wellness, your miracle money, your romance is already around you?

Well it's 99.99999% likely.

Ladies, your body runs differently than men. You have a miracle organ that's only job is to feel pleasure. Your nervous system organizes around oxytocin. You're designed to be in bliss.

The reason why you're not, is still still operating from old system that have convinced you something is wrong with you. To isolate when you're stressed. To dampen your desires, and let people stomp around in your energy to make them feel safe and comfortable.

That is not the way your body is designed.

You will not find sustainable wellness, fun, enjoyment, peace, in that system.

The answer to the question that has driven me out of the mental health field and into the wild territory of "healing", is bliss.

I want to show you that the female body is a miracle zone for creating, loving, healing, and receiving.

I have redesigned my life around this concept. I let people give to me. I dress like an art piece. I walk around with honey in my womb. I have relationships that hold me. I have a body that shed "permanent" illnesses. I have released addictions.

But more importantly? I'm not addicted to what's wrong, so my body, my life started showing me all that was right.

Yesterday a woman gave me a beautiful teal dress as I was walking my dog.

My friends write me poetry.

Last year I was taken on two international trips, all expenses paid.

Last week a man paid for my lunch as I sat alone in the sunshine.

These past two months have been the most profitable for Spirit Collective since her inception.

These small wonders are not things that happened to me while I was addicted to struggle, symptoms, and stuck in a spiritual hustle.

They happen because I have welcomed the codes of my feminine mysteries.

You're done with the healing cycle

I still heal. I still meet parts of me that are ready to shift. I still work with a practitioner. And some people still make me want to scream. But my life is no longer oriented around what's wrong with me, what's wrong with them, what's wrong with this world.

It was a chemistry shift.

So continue your healing, but don't make it your whole personality.

Continue to seek wellness, but not from a state of cortisol over-drive.

Seek wellness through the lense of bliss.

Feminine Mysteries Class is for the woman who is done making her wounds her whole personality. Done with pain as a spiritual practice. Done waiting to feel like herself on the other side of one more breakthrough.

She is ready to be in bliss. Not someday. Now.

Join us live on May 17th. It is free. And it will change your body chemistry before you leave the room.

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